Sunday, September 27, 2009

Attitude

Attitude is actually a creative cycle that begins with your choice of thoughts. You do choose your thoughts and that choice is where your attitude originates. As you internalize ideas or become emotionally involved with you thoughts, you create the second stage in forming an attitude; you move your entire being -mind and body- into a new" vibration".

Your conscious awareness of this vibration is referred to as "feeling"-Your feelings are then expressed in actions or behaviors that produce the various results in your life.

Positive results are always the effect of a positive attitude. Attitude and results are inseperable. They follow one another like night follows day. What I mean by that is; one is the cause, the other is the result. There is a term we use to distinguish this "cause and effect" relationship, it is called the law of cause and effect. Simply stated; if you think in negative terms, you will get negative results; if you think in positive terms you will achieve positive results. Ralph Waldo Emerson reiterated that same point when he said, "A person is what they think about all day long." The results you achieve in life are nothing more than an expression of your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Take a close look at your life and evaluate the results you are achieving in various areas. See if you are able to relate your attitude to your results.

Winning and losing are opposite sides of the same coin.- and that coin is attitude. There are many things wrong in this world; unfortunately that is all some people are able to see. Those who view the world in this light are often unhappy and somewhat cynical. Usually, their life is one of lack and limitation and it almost appears as if they move from one bad experience to another. I know people who are like this and I'm certain you do as well.
It would appear as if they were born with a steak of bad luck and it has followed them around their whole life. These individuals are quick to blame circumstances or other people for their problems, rather than accepting responsibility for their life and their attitude.

Conversely, there are others who are forever winning and living the good life. They are the real movers and shakers who make this happen. They seem to go from one major accomplishment to another. They're in control of their life; they know where they are going and know they will get there. They are the real winners in life and their wins are a matter of choice.

You can experience that kind of life as well, you only need to decide. Making that simple decision is the first step to a new life. Dorothea Brand once said, "Act as if it were impossible to fail," and I challenge you to do so. By simply becoming aware that you can choose your thoughts each and every day, you will change your entire outlook. You have the power to choose an abundant life no matter your circumstances. That active choice will allow other positive people and opportunities to be attracted into your life. Don't wait to experience all the wonderful things the universe has in store for you. Start today by working on your attitude and welcome the abundant life that you were meant to lead.


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Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Developing Core Leadership Skills

Developing Core Leadership skills
Jim Rohn said if you want things to change you have to change.

1. Start with yourself...We all know it is true, you have nothing to give unless you develop yourself. Odds are you will never be a leader if you do not develop Rituals in your life, work on your core values, hold yourself accountable.
Develop your physical energy routine. The basis of all life is energy in motion. How much energy do you have?
How much do you take care of your own body? If physical body is weakened then your vehicle to move you through life will not have the energy to go out and really make things happen in life.

We are not physically healthy and it is from pure laziness that this occurs. when you create routines that are lazy you will get nothing done.

Start a morning routine make this a make or break ritual or habit, if you spend your day at random on how you get things done this ritual will help form better habits for you.
Wake up every morning meditate for 20-30 minutes.
Clear your clutter connect with a deeper awareness.
At the end of every day do the same...

Then build in some form of exercise, yoga, walks, bike rides, ect.

Eat healthy foods, we are all putting in chemicals from foods that are so unhealthy and killing off our cells that give us energy and will to thrive...if you do not feed the temple with foods that will nourish you how long do you think it will take till your temlple is shut down?

Eat Raw goods, fish, vegatables, brown rice, cleanse your body of toxins with Nutritional products that will give your body a chance to restore and repair the damage we are doing to it...This is your temple, you wouldn't go to church and do bad things, then why do you do it to your own temple?
Laziness that is why.....we have become a lazy society...change this...

If you want to operate at peak efficiency avoid alcohol, drugs, oils, fats, chemicalls, it all starts with your body.

#2 Feed the mind
Education process, you can't give what you don't have to give...surround yourself with people that will feed your mind.
By focusing on specific areas you really increase value in your life.
go to mentors ask what are 5 books they read that got them to where they are today.
consume it, direct knowledge of people who are successful.
get rid of negative people in life, really tune them out. If you are surrounded by people who are motivated then there is probably more happiness in your own life.

Core connections you cannot give what you don't have. You must focus and develop yourself.
Be selfish but wisely. grow yourself so you can grow others.
Surround yourself with people who nourish your soul.
It is the process of becomming a leader that develops the skills of being a leader.
that strength in who you are so you have more to give back.

If you are not willing to meet the challenges of becomming a leader then you do not deserve to be a leader. It is for those who want to work through them challenges.

#3. Communication

communication is the basis of relationships, The most important things in life are relationships. whether it is business, partnerships, any life.

Before focusing on other people we must start with ourselves.
Body, core routines (physical exercise), foods you eat, meditation, a body in motion brings consistancy into your life.

Reading, learning, start this and you will watch your life change.
Feed your mind open your heart, now you are ready to serve the master in a much more powerful way.

We are communicating from closed off places, most people are unaware of what is going on outside ourselves.
Our world view has been conditioned by all the things that have happened in our lives. So we are unable to get out of are conditioning.

Step out and percieve the world from another persons eyes, What makes them emotional? is this a sensitive area? do they not care much? feel the world through their eyes. put yourself second remove our bias world view.

When we do this it shapes how we communicate with other people.
What you will se is a beautiful image that happens. You see connection you have never seen before.
2 people coming from ther own world views.

So many people are out there, putting out their views, see this view or that one, there is no connection that can happen. this is important in business and in life.

We are all not actually customers, marketers, we are HUMAN and everyone of us is more or less the same. We all want the same things:
Love
companionship
care
we don't want to experience fear
we all want to give back
We all really want the same things yet so often we go around disconnected from each other trying to get others to see our view. This is impossible if you want to be a real leader.

A real leader sees the world from other peoples views. When you really focus on being your heart more, sense things, pick up things from a totally different way...it will be seen in how we posture ourselves, how you look into the eyes of another, without ever saying a word. This comes when we are more present.

Once we've gone through what I'm talking about it's time to formulate a core purpose for your life.

Every leader is being guided by something. A leader has a purpose to give back to the world it is our job to discover our unique gift and then figure out how to use it to give back to the world it is extra-ordinary.

Before the vision comes to you, what direction you are meant to travel, you need to be incredibly clear and doing all these things above it will emerge your purpose, every part must be in place without clearing all the distractions all the things going on in your life it will not happen.

Life is asking you to go through tough times now, face emotions, face what you don't want to face. then you get the gifts....& man what a gift it is...

HEART CENTERED LEADERSHIP and our new calling that the world is really asking for. It has to do with Finding those gifts.
What do people need now?
What products are there?
What can I fullfill?
What can I do to corospond in those areas?
How does my gift (purpose) corospond with this?

This is one of the most powerful driving forces for the good, I'm not kidding you it is a force more powerful then anything you have ever been taught. When your actual life is in line with your deepest desires, deepest direction, No matter what you do you are going to be successful.
Even if you don't make the money you want to make you are a success.

Leadership is coming from the deepest place and in total alignment with giving back to the world. That is truly a blessing.
We will do the most amazing things with our lives.
Get to the point where we are emotionally clear, energetically powerful enough for your true core gifts to emerge then you pick the best way for you to give back to the world you can almost guarantee something will unfold. Because that is what the world is asking for.
And whe we do this in business those are the best companies, marketers, everyone follows because they are bringing their best to the world. Everyone senses it and feels it.
Again you cannot get there without all these steps.

How do I find my gifts? Ask a friend to tell you 2 things you are the best at?
What areas you excell in, they may say you are so creative, they will tell you...go from there..

Mastering in life is not mastering everything in life. if you want to excell in any one area I guarantee you if you pick one or two things and directly focus on them you will have a direct line of success.
any area you become expert in you create value, this value is for others to know.
Some areas aren't about profit some pay more then others, people become councelers to help people not to get rich.
A leader develops a vision for the world where they see the world as energy contribution. A leader sees the world in a different way.
Money is a direct corelation to value....the more value you provide the more money you make.

Its really important to disassociate our idea of money being a thing...it is paper, really, $20 could be a piece of knowledge, it could be a way of communicating on the phone....what you share could be value or money....

Our world is asking for New Leadership levels.
If you are really going to hit your biggest passion you have to be physically,emotionally,spiritually sound.
you feed yourself with knowledge you feed yourself with people and after that a vision will emerge, it all starts with an Idea.
I really want to start a website, give back, it is not that we are looking for the vision that is going to tell us everything at once. It's the callings that will take us to a deeper level in life and guide us to satisfaction, fulfillment.

Treat yourself like you love yourself, like the temple that you are and develop core rituals in your life all this other stuff will unfold from that point on.
The mindset of most people in the world 90% are not interested in growing or reaching a higer development.
alot are interested in growing but how many are doing it?
This is where you see a drop off. Not really fullfilling a deeper me, I cannot see why?
I come from a place I do not want to go back to. I do not want to be in that 90%.
What is emerging on this planet with leadership. What is your deepest motivations of why you do what you do?
What is dear to your heart?
Well I am done for today I found this very enlightning and I hope you did too. These are things I am working on myself,,,,,,I am living proof that change is in the air. won't you be a part of it...

Until next time be blessed
Patricia

Thanks Jonathan for sharing your loving thoughts with me, you are truly a blessing for many...
God bless everyone...Change is happening...