#2 Building Strong Relationships

#2 Building Strong Relationships:

Find one thing you like and compliment, encourage, build up, notice others. Sometimes we think that they know what we are thinking, don't miss the opportunity to sow a compliment. Complimenting is the glue to holding you together keep relationships strong.

Your thoughts don't bless anyone but you, so everyday find something to compliment. Point out when people do things, build them up when you leave you should leave people in a better situation, then they were. Be a people builder, talk to the women in the office that is grumpy, make positive deposits where ever you go.



When all odds are against you get your mouth going in the right direction, start declaring I am going to fulfill my destiny....Before you leave in the A.M Give thanks declare good things in your life....This is how we give light to our faith.

Get on the offensive saying positive things in your life...I am strong, I am healthy, I will live my destiny......You will become a better you.

If we do not tell our children who they are someone else will, give them a big vision for their lives, acknowledge all good things and our faith is alive,if we focus on our possibility, expect people to like you, expect people to be positive about who you are.....You are fulfilling your destiny, a person of destiny....

I have the favor of God. This is going to be a great day. Empower yourself and everyone around you.For many people all it takes, is someone to spark a bit of hope into someone else. Don't focus on where they are right now see them for who they could be.

You lost your temper in traffic, you answer should be yes I did but I'm growing.
What about that failure, or trouble you had the other day...Your answer should be that's okay I'm looking forward.
When we think this way we take the power from the acuser, say I am the apple of Gods eye, I know that he will take care of me....He focuses on how far you have come, not your negative things.

We all make mistakes, but we learn and pick ourselves back up.

Poor choices will catch up with you...and from this you move up....get out of the pattern of condemnation. Build yourself up...and others.

Nothing you have done will be to far for him, He is waiting for you to take that first step toward him. He wants to put the robe of honor on you, even though we make mistakes, he will recieve us back as long as we seek him and give yourself Gods Best.

Keep Strife out of life

Relationships occupy much lower positions then they deserve too. We need to learn how to keep the strife out of our lives. If someone doesn't agree with you it does not mean that you are right or wrong, just different. It takes maturity to keep peace with other people, overlook fault sometimes,do not expect perfection....that is unrealistic, and not fair to them, love covers a persons faults...learn to show a little Mercy. Everybody has the right to a bad day...Love keeps no record of wrongs done to it...do not keep a mental list or scorecard, throw out your negative book, do you want to have your way or do you want to have healthy relationships. God has put you with someone different then you on purpose, you compliment each other, you should complete each other instead of compete with each other.

Be the peacemaker in your family, minor things are not important keep peace just let it go.

Leave what is in the past in the past...Press forward, talk back to the acuser do not allow it to affect your life.

Grace is a free gift give from God. Make it a Joy to train your children and have patience in your Relationships..


Be blessed
Patricia