Friday, March 11, 2011

The Marketing Secrets Diva Training Has Begun





My Friends,

I have taken the time to create a new blog in addition to this one that I feel is necessary to expand and help others in the marketing arena. Although inspiration is still very much a part of my life and I will continue, to bless you with it, I had to take the next step.

Developing others is also a passion of mine, I realize that so many people need what I am sharing and spent years learning. My hope is to help eliminate some of the trials I had to go through to get me where I want to go. The money people are spending to develop themselves online is incredible, it is my hope to cut that learning curve in half. All along my journey my question to myself has been why do
all these programs give you just enough to get you started and leave you stuck and needing to look for more?

I will put an end to that with this new blog. If you are looking for ways, to develop and grow your business online I will be sharing them on this new blog.
Please come and join me there as well.Share my information and bless me as well, leave comments if the information you received helped you that is what networking is all about. It is a relationship business. I look forward to connecting soon.
blessings
Patricia

http://PatriciaFaidley.com

Sunday, February 27, 2011

What do you fear




What do you fear?



I watched a child in the mall yesterday as she was kicking and screaming. Her parents were trying their best to calm her down.



I also watched the people passing by them. Some shook their heads and saw the child as a spoiled, "give me what I want now," child. Others paused and offered a few kind words to both the child and pare...nts.



"You're such a beautiful little girl. Such a beautiful girl shouldn't cry," one lady said.



"Don't be so sad. We all have bad days," added another.



"I think she's a spoiled brat," I heard one whisper to a friend.



None of themwere right. The child was neither spoiled nor having a bad day.



She was afraid.



The parents told me afterwards that someone carrying a coat scared her. She's afraid of dogs. The coat looked like a big dog.



They went on to explain that it is a challenge for them to go places. Friends have dogs, neighbors nearby walk their dogs down the street.



So, you can imagine what it's like to try to get through a day without sending your child into a panic.



I can remember, as a child walking up the steps at night I would get the feeling that someone or some thing was going to grab my feet. So, I ran most of the time.



I'll admit that occasionally as an adult I do the same thing.



Fear - what you fear the most in life, owns you, controls you, limits you.



I struggle with the fear of heights, but I fight it. My wife sent me off in a glider on my 60th birthday. I was fine. I was better than fine, I was great!



If I could have one foolish child-like wish come true it would be to have the ability to fly like a bird.



The truth is fear can be debilitating. Fear cripples many, limits abilities to enjoy even the simplest things in life and in some cases stops people from having medical procedures that could prevent major health issues.



Fear also crushes dreams.



Sometimes our own fears are imposed on others around us affecting their views and impacting their ability to live life fully...all in the name of love, concern and good parenting.



Someone once used the acronym F.E.A.R as False Evidence Appearing Real.



I'm not sure that applies to all fear. One might have had a bad experience with a dog and now that fear is real, relevant in their lives.



But, I think the kind of fear I believe we can deal with is the fear that reinforces doubt.



In particular poor self image issues either self imposed or wrongfully fed to you by others in your life or the world in general.



Fear and doubt are enemies of faith. They are the enemy thatyou permit to control your decisions, even when you declare your faith in God.



You give them power over you. The enemy doesn't want you to be happy, successful, or faithful. The enemy wantsyou to fail and stay there. Why?



Because successful, happy, healthy people give credit for their happiness to God even when they face their fears they declare their belief in the God who fears nothing.



"Fear prevents, faith prevails!"



Bob Perks

Bob Perks is an inspirational author and speaker. Bob's new book I Wish You Enough has been published by Thomas Nelson Publishers. A collection of stories based on his Eight Wishes expressed below. Available through your favorite bookstore or online. Visit www.BobPerks.com

"I Wish You Enough!"

(c) 2001 Bob Perks

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.

I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough "Hello's" to get you through the final "Goodbye."

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Why Your Attitude is Everything And How to Turn it Into Action








Why Your Attitude is Everything And How to Turn it Into Action

Keith Harrell March 10, 2009 Posted in Success Magazine

One of the most important steps you can take toward achieving your greatest potential in life is to learn to monitor your attitude and its impact on your work performance, relationships and everyone around you.

I generally start my workshops and seminars by asking a fundamental question: What attitude did you bring into this meeting? Often, this brings puzzled looks. In truth, people generally don’t have a high level of attitude awareness. They’ll know if they are hungry or if their feet hurt, but they usually don’t have a good handle on their attitude. That is a mistake because attitude is everything. It governs the way you perceive the world and the way the world perceives you.

We all have a choice. We can choose an inner dialogue of self-encouragement and self-motivation, or we can choose one of self-defeat and self-pity. It’s a power we all have. Each of us encounters hard times, hurt feelings, heartache, and physical and emotional pain. The key is to realize it’s not what happens to you that matters; it’s how you choose to respond.

Your mind is a computer that can be programmed. You can choose whether the software installed is productive or unproductive. Your inner dialogue is the software that programs your attitude, which determines how you present yourself to the world around you. You have control over the programming. Whatever you put into it is reflected in what comes out.

Many of us have behavior patterns today that were programmed into our brains at a very tender age. The information that was recorded by our brains could have been completely inaccurate or cruel. The sad reality of life is that we will continue to hear negative information, but we don’t have to program it into our brains.

The loudest and most influential voice you hear is your own inner voice, your selfcritic. It can work for or against you, depending on the messages you allow. It can be optimistic or pessimistic. It can wear you down or cheer you on. You control the sender and the receiver, but only if you consciously take responsibility for and control over your inner conversation.

Habitual bad attitudes are often the product of past experiences and events. Common causes include low self-esteem, stress, fear, resentment, anger and an inability to handle change. It takes serious work to examine the roots of a harmful attitude, but the rewards of ridding ourselves of this heavy baggage can last a lifetime.

Here are 10 strategies from my attitude tool kit to improve your attitude:

Self-Coaching Through Affirmations
Affirmations repeated several times each day, every day, serve to reprogram your subconscious with positive thinking. An affirmation is made up of words charged with power, conviction and faith. You send a positive response to your subconscious, which accepts whatever you tell it. When done properly, this triggers positive feelings that, in turn, drive action.
Self-Motivation Through Discovering Your Motives
Discover what motivates you—what incites you to take action to change your life. Basic motives include love, self-preservation, anger, financial gain and fear. Self-motivation requires enthusiasm, a positive outlook, a positive physiology (walk faster, smile, sit up), and a belief in yourself and your God-given potential.
The Power of Visualization

Studies of the psychology of peak performance have found that most great athletes, surgeons, engineers and artists use affirmations and visualizations either consciously or subconsciously to enhance and focus their skills. Nelson Mandela has written extensively on how visualization helped him maintain a positive attitude while being imprisoned for 27 years. “I thought continually of the day when I would walk free. I fantasized about what I would like to do,” he wrote in his autobiography. Visualization works well to improve attitude.

Attitude Talk for Positive Internal Dialogue
Attitude talk is a way to override your past negative programming by erasing or replacing it with a conscious, positive internal voice that helps you face new directions. Your internal conversation—that little voice you listen to all day long—acts like a seed in that it programs your brain and affects your behavior. Take a closer look at what you are saying to yourself.

The Power of Words—WOW
Once released to the universe, our words cannot be taken back. Learn the concept of WOW—watch our words. What we speak reflects what is already in our hearts based upon all the things we have come to believe about ourselves. If we find ourselves speaking judgmental and disparaging things about our circumstances or those around us, we know the condition of our hearts needs to change. You can create a direct path to success by what you say.

The Power in a Positive Greeting
When people ask me how I am doing, I say, “Super-fantastic.” Most people enjoy working and living with others who try to live life for what it is—a beautiful gift.
Enthusiasm: Vital Tool for Staying Motivated
Enthusiasm is to attitude what breathing is to life. Enthusiasm enables you to apply your gifts more effectively. It’s the burning desire that communicates commitment, determination and spirit. Enthusiasm means putting yourself in motion. It’s an internal spirit that speaks through your actions from your commitment and your belief in what you are doing. It is one of the most empowering and attractive characteristics you can have.

Connecting to Your Spiritual Empowerment
The ultimate level of human need extends into the spiritual realm. Just as we feed our bodies in response to our primary need to survive physically, we need to feed our spirit because we are spiritual beings. Many people find powerful and positive motivation in their faith. I happen to be one of them.

Lighten Up Your Life with Humor
Humor is a powerful motivator. The more humor and laughter in your life, the less stress you’ll have, which means more positive energy to help you put your attitude into action. There are also health benefi ts to lightening up.

Exercising Will Help Keep You Motivated
One of the best ways to move to a more positive and motivated frame of mind is to exercise. A regular exercise routine can provide relatively quick positive feedback in the form of weight loss, muscle development and a sense of doing something positive for yourself.

Seek your personal and professional success by using the tools in this attitude tool kit. It is no secret that life seems to reward us most when we approach the world with a positive attitude.

I really enjoyed this so I thought I would share it on my blogg
Blessings Patricia Faidley

Friday, February 25, 2011

Extreme Blog Makeover



Hello Toby and Layla, Ir's Patricia Faidley From Maryland
Welcome to my blog, I am applying for the Expertise and Precision of your Technical abilities to build me A Rockstar Blog to increase my productivity 100%. I know that with you on my side I will be totally set up for succes.

I am praying that I am picked to recieve it. You know I spent the last 4 and a half years giving my heart and soul to others, providing value and what a gift it would be to recieve this awesome gift you both are offering. I know that if given this gift it would not go in vain, I am so grateful for all the help you have offered so far this tops it. I really think you heard my prayers.

I know you are only picking 20 and appreciate the consideration on this it's truly a blessing.

So Pic me I am your women for the job. I will not let you both down.

Blessings Patricia

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Today I Give Thanks An Praise





It us Sunday afternoon, all is quiet here in my home. I sit and think of all the many blessings I have and there are many. I give thanks to the only one who makes it all possible that is God.

I try to share something everday because it is my perspective that everyone should have something to believe in. Many will say don't push religion on others, I say if your life is not going the way that you want it too, Everything seems to turn to mush, then there must be something that is not right. You see God does not push, he does not do anything that you do not ask for. You may not know this but he simply waits until you ask for Him to come to you. He is not forceful, but just as any father would be He is there by your side regardless, if you are listening or not.

We were all created, we are all connected, we are all family in His eyes, there is one thing I do know He is patient, forgiving, and always there.
If you Ask it shall be done. Belief is so important in life. Where are you going? I know that when I look back I see the times He carried me, lifted me up, kept me from harm. He believed in me even when I didn't believe. It wasn't until I gave Him my all that I felt his power totally transform me to the person I am now.

I do not say this to sway you but to communicate with you that there is other ways to see things. You may not believe in God but you must believe in something? What is guiding you, where does that inner voice come from you know the one that tells you that you are on the right track, the one with emotions so powerful that you know it could only be of extreme intelligence. That is your connection, when you grow that connection you are unstoppable. Through Him all things are possible.

Because it is Sunday I like to give thanks to whom I believe My Dear Lord And Savior Jesus Christ. Amen

Have a blessed day
Patricia Faidley

Friday, February 18, 2011

The Pages Long Forgotten






The Pages Long Forgotten

Mike stepped into the used bookstore, smelled the age of old pages and smiled.

Here was a wealth of old stories, history waiting to be read, and a host of other joys. On a back shelf, he found what he was looking for, two tiers crammed with the forgotten. They'd served their use to those who once held them dear, but now gathered dust in the darkest corner of the store.

There were Italian, American, French and Greek. They contained secrets from around the world. There were collections of chicken, beef, pastries, bread, and desserts. They waited, hidden in a little explored part of the store, and hoped someone discovered their treasures.

Mike knew what to do. He picked one up, held the spine in his hand and let the book fall open. They always opened to the most used pages, the recipes loved by lost generations. The page in front of him was for a recipe called, "Beef-filled cornbread". The picture showed a delicious layer of meat and cheese, layered with cornbread and covered with a hot sauce. The pages were stained with splatters of tomato sauce. It was obviously a favorite of the previous owners. He'd try this one.

Those used the most are the best.

He found several other books, each with its own marked pages, carried them to the counter and made his purchase.

"I hope you found something you like." The cashier said.

"Oh yes. Very much! I'm sure these are exactly to my taste."

He paid for his purchase, left the store and carried them in a bag on his way to work.

In the locker room, he placed his books on the top shelf and changed into his scrubs. The recipes would wait. He had a duty.

Freshly dressed, he walked his floor. "Hello, Mrs. Smith!" He smiled at the elderly lady sitting in the sun-room reading a book. In her day, she must have been a beautiful woman. She still was, for a woman in her eighties. "How was your day?"

"Horrible!" she growled. He sat beside her, held her hand and looked into her eyes. "My grandson didn't visit me," she continued. "He promised me he'd be here today." She adjusted her shawl and tried to hide the tears about to spill from her wizened eyes.

"Maybe tomorrow." he replied. "You know how busy these young people are." He noted the tear in the corner of her eye and changed subject. "Mrs. Smith, didn't you tell me you lived during the great depression?"

A smile came to her face. "Oh, yes. What a time that was. There was no work, ya know. But we survived."

"How did you get by?"

"Well, we all worked together. Everyone worked together. We helped each other." She frowned. "It's not like today, where people are too busy to worry about anyone but themselves. In those days, we worked together. If you didn't, you starved."

"It must have been a hard time, Mrs. Smith. I don't know how you did it."

"I didn't." she grinned. "We did. We did it together, the neighbors and my family."

He left her smiling and hoped her grandson paid a visit the next day.

He moved down the hall and stepped into Mr. Walker's room. "Hey, Walk! How's things?" He used the name Walk, as all the others in the center called him. It made Walk feel comfortable.

Mr. Walker looked up from a puzzle he leaned over. "Could be better, Mike. This damn puzzle has me stumped. These eyes aren't what they used to be."

"I know, Walk. Just take your time. There's no rush."

"There is too." Walk chuckled. "I need to finish it before I die."

"Not too soon I hope." Mike said.

"Soon enough. Be glad not to have to work on this darn thing anymore anyway. Say! Have I told you about the guy who walks into a bar with a giraffe under his arm?"

Mike chuckled. Walk loved a good joke. "I don't believe you have."

Walk's face broke out in a smile. "You see, this guy walks into a bar with a giraffe under his arm. He has a few beers. The giraffe falls asleep on the floor. The bartender looks down, sees the giraffe and asks, 'What's that lying on the floor?'

"The guy says, 'That's not a lion! That's a giraffe.'"

Walk broke into a laugh that turned into a coughing spell. Mike slapped him on the back. "Come on, Walk. Cough it up."

Walk got himself under control. "Thought I wasn't going to finish this damn puzzle after all."

"You're OK now. I got your back."

I know about covering someone's back." Walk sat straight his seat. "I was in WWII ya know."

"I heard that. Did you have a hard time?" Mike asked.

"Mike, you have no idea. It was the winter of '41, or was it '42. I can't remember now. Snow was up to here." Walk pointed to his thigh. "We were on the front. The enemy was close ."

Thirty minutes later, Mike said, "WOW! That's a story, Walk." He paused. "Walk, I knew you were in the war, but I don't think I ever thanked you. I want to say, 'Thank you.' You made us safe."

"Ah, stop it. It was nothing." Walk turned to his puzzle, too embarrassed to continue their talk. He and others knew what they did, but don't want to take credit. It's an unspoken rule between the veterans. They did what they had to.

Mike continued on his rounds, held hands, shared hugs and listened.

Here they were, like the cookbooks, sitting in dark corners, ignored. Mike knew what to do. He held them, let their hearts fall open, and found the pages stained with use.


They are the most valued. They are the pages long forgotten.


Michael T. Smith


Michael lives with his lovely wife, Ginny, in Caldwell, Idaho. He works as a project manager in Telecommunications and in his spare time writes inspiration stories. He has recently been published in two Chicken Soup for the Soul Books (All in the Family and Things I Learned from My Cat), in "Thin Threads - Life Changing Moments" and in Catholic Digest. To sign up for Michael's stories go to: http://visitor.constantcontact.com/d.jsp?m=1101828445578&p=oi
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Love sharing nice stories like this to inspire others if you enjoy my post please leave a comment below I keeps me inspiring more blessings
Patricia Faidley